April 2
Print versions available April 2nd
Understanding Communication and Relationships in Autism
I am pleased to announce the release of the third volume in The Understanding Autism Series: Understanding Communication and Relationships in Autism.
Relationships are rarely difficult because people do not care. More often, they become strained because communication is misunderstood — tone is misread, intentions are misinterpreted, or expectations remain unspoken.
In this volume, I explore how communication actually works in everyday relationships and why it can feel especially complex for autistic adolescents and adults. Drawing from more than 30 years of clinical experience in neuropsychology and nearly 1,000 autism evaluations, this book translates research and diagnostic criteria into practical, real-life application.
Topics include:
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The distinction between task-focused and relationship-focused interaction
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Navigating compliments, gratitude, and reciprocity
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Understanding how shame and misinterpretation affect connection
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Practical strategies for conflict repair and relational resilience
This book is written for autistic adults, partners, parents, and professionals who want greater clarity — not scripts or masking, but understanding. When insight increases, relationships become less fragile and more grounded in mutual respect.
Understanding Communication and Relationships in Autism builds on the foundation of the first two volumes and continues the goal of the series: to increase understanding across the lifespan.
I am deeply grateful to the individuals and families whose experiences have shaped this work, and I hope this book offers meaningful support to those navigating communication and connection in their own lives.
Introduction: Autism Diagnosis in the adult
Want to Earn a Certificate of Completion and 1.0 CEU?
You can access the course materials for free, or choose to take register for a certificate. In order to earn the certificate, the student will read the article and watch all videos. After achieving 80% or more on the exam, Dr. Regan will email your certificate. Please check with your professional organization to ensure the CEU meets their requirements.
Parable of the elephant
Watch this brief but essential video about why autism is misdiagnosed and how to detect incorrect labels. Because wrong diagnosis leads to ineffective interventions, correct diagnosis is paramount.
benefits of Diagnosis
Grab some popcorn and a notepad while you watch this 15-minute video about why diagnosis is important. Dr. Regan covers all the reasons you never considered. She also reviews practical barriers and instances when a diagnosis may not add substantial benefit.
Barriers to Diagnosis
Watch this brief video about practical barriers to an autism diagnosis.
Busting myths
This video aims to bust myths about autism that may interfere with people seeking or receiving a correct diagnosis.
Busting Myths
Watch part two of the myth-busting lesson
How
Dr. Regan offers recommendations for finding a professional to perform a diagnostic assessment.